Happily Ever After?

When i was young, i read umpteen fairy tales which never fail to end up getting married happily ever after...

As i grow up, i start to realise.. there is no such thing as happily ever after.. these words are just cosmetic words to make the story seems slightly more interesting.. but matter of fact. good or bad.. things STILL come to a stop when its time to end..

Being in a relationship is definitely easy... but maintaining a relationship n keeping the flame burning can be a bitch.. especially to those whom have been in a relationships that lasted for years..

I've seen people breaking up after a long term relationship.. not for the worse but apparently, it was for the better... i salute them for their positive thoughts/courage to walk out and move on... i respect them for having to start all over to adapt back to their single life.. its not easy, but i see them coping well.. 

I've also seen a fair share people suffering in a relationship yet unwilling to let go or even got emotionally stuck after breaking up in a long relationship.. and continue complaining bout what they are going through.. yes i understand it is not easy to leave a long relationship.. i understand the pain.. but i also understand that there is nothing difficult in this world.. its all about how you handle/face them..complaining doesn't solve the issue..


I believe alot of couples are hanging on to their relationship because they think that its a waste to let a long relationship go just like that.. but i dun think it works that way.. if u see no potential anymore, you should jolly well leave before wasting ur time further.. getting emotionally strangled is worse than a break up..who say breaking up is a bad ting?some are afraid that their life will be different while some are afraid to face the changes in their life as their partner is already part of their life..friend, there is nothing to fear about... failing a relationship would only be one of ur slightest failure in ur life.. u can easily stand up and start all over again..

relationships are like long term investments... it takes a lot of patience and attention.. it might bring u high return but it may also caused u to go insane or bankrupt...