Honestly, i dislike encouraging people with negative thoughts..

i just hate toking to negative people.. i hate the continuous advices given but yet they are still complaining about the same thing to me all the time!!!!!

it is so damn irritating when i hear people saying "LIFE SUCKS", "LOVE SUCKS" and what not... first and foremost, it really really reflects hell lot on you if do not realise.. and stop those loser talk after you break up in a relationship.. because it is another factor that reflects on you as well!!! not only you are childish but you are equally not a gentlemen...

for the last time i am going to tell you that life DO NOT suck unless you want them to.. love DO NOT suck unless you chose it to be.. get a life dude!!!! your life is in your hand...dun let others affect u.. dun let others bring u down.. u are holding to the steering wheel of life.. u r the one in control.. never ever complain anymore when u meet into any mishap...

life is not all bout complaining.. why is it so sucky to be single? i dun see any problem with it.. why are u always complaining when a girl u like doesnt like u? why do u allow her to revolve around u? if u are going to let all these hinder u, u will never be able to make it in life.. u will take all ur time complaining and emoing while others use the time wisely to do someting more meaningful.. even feeding the stray cats is more meaningful than u complaining and emoing can!!!

so cheer up please!!!! set ur path and be focus... who knows maybe 5 years down the road u will be successful and u will probably be laughing at urself for wasting the time complaining ur life away.. never let another person bring u down.. those whom really care are people who guide u along the way and never despise u.. if a girl can reject u and bring down, obviously she is not worth it to be ur future partner.. u need a supportive partner.. i am not asking u to F her right into her face but maybe you would like to take her as a motivation to strive harder? those who always thing that they are high up there are normally those who will remain stagnant while those humble people are the ones that are actually constantly improving and eventually they will surpass the rest.. its just the same theory as the tortise and the rabbit story..

anyway, all the best.. stop brooding over this minor things in life.. it might be painful.. but remember, its just the smallest wound in life..if its yours, it will be yours eventually... and dun look around for love.. becos true love will guide 2 person together one day even before u realise.. cheer up uncle!! i am not going to repeat myself umpteen times over the same issue.. neither would i spend my time listening to ur complain!! and these are the reasons i gave up tokin to u directly... :)

you will not realise what you are missing out until you really lose it one day.....

Happily Ever After?

When i was young, i read umpteen fairy tales which never fail to end up getting married happily ever after...

As i grow up, i start to realise.. there is no such thing as happily ever after.. these words are just cosmetic words to make the story seems slightly more interesting.. but matter of fact. good or bad.. things STILL come to a stop when its time to end..

Being in a relationship is definitely easy... but maintaining a relationship n keeping the flame burning can be a bitch.. especially to those whom have been in a relationships that lasted for years..

I've seen people breaking up after a long term relationship.. not for the worse but apparently, it was for the better... i salute them for their positive thoughts/courage to walk out and move on... i respect them for having to start all over to adapt back to their single life.. its not easy, but i see them coping well.. 

I've also seen a fair share people suffering in a relationship yet unwilling to let go or even got emotionally stuck after breaking up in a long relationship.. and continue complaining bout what they are going through.. yes i understand it is not easy to leave a long relationship.. i understand the pain.. but i also understand that there is nothing difficult in this world.. its all about how you handle/face them..complaining doesn't solve the issue..


I believe alot of couples are hanging on to their relationship because they think that its a waste to let a long relationship go just like that.. but i dun think it works that way.. if u see no potential anymore, you should jolly well leave before wasting ur time further.. getting emotionally strangled is worse than a break up..who say breaking up is a bad ting?some are afraid that their life will be different while some are afraid to face the changes in their life as their partner is already part of their life..friend, there is nothing to fear about... failing a relationship would only be one of ur slightest failure in ur life.. u can easily stand up and start all over again..

relationships are like long term investments... it takes a lot of patience and attention.. it might bring u high return but it may also caused u to go insane or bankrupt...

SORRY becomes worthless when......

Some people just apologise over the same reason they have been apologising for!!!